I am as fun loving as a puppy. Although, I always put work before play and bills before spending, I love to have fun. There's no point in getting up every morning if your just going to have a boring and depressing day.
Having fun is alot easier in my opion if your easy going. For example, I just started my second job yesterday and because I was more easy going than anything else I fit right in to my new job surrounding. Although, everyone had a different style (some by quiet a bit) and a large age range I got along with everyone. Which in turn made my work day alot more fun.
Another thing that helps people to have more fun just about anywhere would be not caring what people think. After all you can't please everyone so you minus well please yourself. If your constantly trying to fit in or be what people want you to be your not going to have any fun. Odds are people won't like you very much either because you'll come off as fake. So, instead of having a rather easy going relationship you'll be getting into arguements or fights.
Money should never be needed to have fun. If you think that's the only way a person can have fun I truly feel sorry for you. Friends should get along so well that they can just sit there and talk and still have a good time. Or maybe do crazy thing that will entertain them. Of course, it's always nice to be able to go out but if you rely on money to have fun you'll always be broke and odds are that person isn't always going to be there for you. What would you even do if you ran out of money? You'd hit a wall that's what. Besides it's always more memorable if you do things that are free. Life shouldn't be about the breathe you take but instead about the moments that take your breath away. :)
I know I probably don't seem very fun loving because I like an adult put first things first. That helps me to relax a little more though, because I know everything is taken care of. You may agree with some of my points like being easy going helps or even disagree. You're free to think I'm wrong and I could care less. This is just in my opion what causes fun to happen easier... When you're having fun or just being happy in general you're more likey to have those moments that take your breath away.So in turn I believe myself to be a rather fun loving person kind of like a puppy. Although, unlike a puppy I know there's a time and place for everything.
Okay so what if someones idea of fun is doing everything but that of which needed to be done. Then that would just throw everything up in the air really. My idea of fun is fighting people. Some would say that needed to be done before doing something like paying the bills because the person could've been a robber or a number of things. My point is you can't have fun if your trying to play the adult all the time. You gotta fight the power not join the leaders. lol
ReplyDeleteLol that's why I didn't say be adult like all the time. I believe that you need an equal balance. Granted sometimes you should just relax and say what the hell, why not?
ReplyDeleteBut you did say that you think like an adult and think that things like bills should be paid first. Balance is another word for control which is never the key to having fun.
ReplyDeleteWell you have me there. But like I said everyones opion of fun is diffrent. And for me to relax I have to know that things are somewhat in order which makes having fun alot easier for me. So :p
ReplyDeleteOrder usually equals the downfall of a civilastaion.
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